Spiritual Counseling


There is an old saying: “Never give a sword to a person who can’t dance”. This ancient wisdom speaks directly to minds that are stuck; minds that cannot move rhythmically but are bound to fear, anxiety and or neglect. When our mind become inflexible, we cut ourselves away from our core, the intuitive self, causing much suffering and pain emotionally and mentally. The fate of one’s life has to do with our ability to be flexible; to see things clearly in life, to walk the circle with impeccable integrity and honesty. Only with the experience of standing unbiased and naked can we really know we are clear and fair minded; that we are authentic. When we become authentic, we receive confidence. With confidence we discover creativity and with creativity we discover he essence of our life.

My belief is that “if you water the roots of the tree, the whole tree benefits”. We unfortunately spend too much time watering leaves, flowers and twigs, the non-essential aspects of life and therefore our tree withers. There are intuitive portals within each of us that opens to intuitive insight, compassion and unreasonable love. This area is invisible to the naked eye but permeates all things seen and unseen. Our travesty is that “we are like fish in the ocean looking for water!” Absurdly enough, we are fundamentally already there!

To set up an appointment, call (860) 552-9095 or email thecenterpole@aol.com.


  • Spirituality
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Meditation
  • Hypnotherapy


  • Anger Management
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Eating Disorders
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Infidelity
  • Life Coaching
  • Men’s Issues
  • Obesity
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Weight Loss
  • Young Men’s Rite of Passage


  • Avg Cost (per session): $80 – $120
  • Sliding Scale: Yes
  • Accepted Payment Methods: Cash, Check and Paypal. Insurances not accepted.
  • Phone and skype sessions available.